I used to work in a university Career Services center. There, I learned that one of the toughest job interview questions was, “How do you define success?” It’s time I answer that question myself.
From my experience, productive counseling meetings incorporate three main therapeutic skills:
- I provide concentrated attention: capacity to listen, presence, and track the main points from our prior conversations
- I help someone expand their story: exposing & exploring additional layers
- I offer concrete options, alternative actions, and resources